LOVE and ALL MYSTERY

LOVE and ALL MYSTERY

oleh Andrew Mamarimbing ~ 12 Juli 2009

Love and Its Mystery

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself.
There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other persons heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love her/him, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.
Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is that how you deal with yourself, and all our hearts fell the same pains and joys, even if you lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and she/he falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame it, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning you will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.

Feel the way
it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to the world around you and in anyway you can.
This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as an empty places that will be filled by love, they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from themThe first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need.

They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.


Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its won reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying.

You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.

But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt! If you keep your heart open, it will come again.